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Preparing your dog
for a new baby
Preparations for introducing your dog
to a new baby should begin several weeks before the baby00 actual
arrival. It is important that your dog be well trained. She should at
least know how to sit, stay, keep paws on the floor while greeting people,
and come when called. Basic training helps keep your dog safe,
makes her easier for others to be around and care for, and creates a
bond between you and your canine companion. Training should always
be a positive experience, for humans and dogs. For more information
about positive training, see the links below.
Be prepared for a change of attitude
towards your pets after your baby is born. Your dog is no longer your
baby. Also, you and your partner are not going to have the same amount
of time to devote to your dog. The important thing to remember
is to try and give her as much attention, playtime, and exercise as
before.
One idea to prepare your dog for sharing
your attention is to get a doll, and set up baby furniture around the
house. Let the dog smell the 00aby00and observe you giving attention
to the doll. Give praise and food treats while your dog is calmly observing
your interaction with this new addition to the home.
Train the dog early that the baby furniture
and toys are not for her. Observe your dog00 interaction with
baby toys and gear and guide the dog toward appropriate toys and beds. If
you feel safe and have the opportunity, invite a friend with a baby
to your house. Reinforce good behavior with praise while the baby is
visiting. If you are nervous about your dog00 behavior for any
reason, you should hire a professional trainer skilled in positive training
methods.
If your baby is born at home, your dog
may be present for the birth. On the day of arrival, if you can
trust your dog00 behavior around babies at this time, let him see,
smell, and touch the baby. You may choose to have a friend take
your dog for the first day after the birth, so you and your partner
can rest. Your dog is more likely to react to this as a happy vacation
(as opposed to abandonment) if you00e sent him on 00acations00
before the birth.
If you act happy and relaxed while your
dog is in the presence of the new baby, it should not take more than
a few weeks for her to accept this new littermate. Some dogs are unnerved
by loud crying and flailing arms and legs. Some dogs (especially younger
or more exuberant dogs) may accidentally jump on or knock over the baby
in a cradle or carrier. Never
leave your dog and baby unattended together. You
should also keep dog and baby separate until you are completely confident
with her ability to stay calm. Safety
first!
I recommend against bringing babies and
toddlers into off leash areas. Even friendly dogs can cause a
problem around babies. Just because your dog is trained not to
jump up doesn00 mean someone else00 dog won00 knock you over while
you00e carrying the baby in a sling or backpack. Strollers are
not a good idea in off leash areas. Many dogs, especially herding
breeds, naturally pursue anything with wheels. Toddlers and young
children who run and make noise can arouse the prey drive in some dogs.
Just as you wouldn00 want a dog in your child00 playground, it is
not appropriate to bring a child into your dog00.
Consider trading dog park visits with
a friend00eave the babies with one mom, while the other takes the
dogs out. Or trade with your partner; one parent takes baby, the
other the dog(s). You may consider hiring a dog walker, arranging
play dates with a friend, or bringing your dog to doggy daycare during
your postpartum recovery time. Adapt your baby shower wish list
to include dog care activities. Recruit friends to help, or ask
for donations towards doggy daycare or a professional dog walker.
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